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Sunday, September 30, 2007

Grandma Climbed the Family Tree by Virginia Day McDonald


There's been a change in grandma, we've noticed as of late.
She's always reading History, or jotting down some date.
She's tracing back the family, we'll all have pedigrees,
Grandma's got a hobby, she's Climbing Family Trees...

Poor Grandpa does the cooking, and now, or so he states,
He even has to wash the cups and the dinner plates.
Well, grandma can't be bothered, she's busy as a bee,
Compiling genealogy for the Family Tree.

She has not time to baby-sit, the curtains are a fright.
No buttons left on grandpa's shirts, the flower bed's a sight.
She's given up her club work, the serials on TV,
The only thing she does nowdays is climb the Family Tree.

The mail is all for grandma, it comes from near and far.
Last week she got the proof she needs to join the DAR.
A monumental project - to that we all agree
A worthwhile avocation - to climb the Family Tree.

She wanders through the graveyard in search of date and name,
The rich , the poor, the in between, all sleeping there the same.
She pauses now and then to rest, fanned by a gentle breeze,
That blows above the Fathers of all our Family Trees.

Now some folks came here from Scotland, some from Galway Bay,
Some were French as pastry, some German all the way.
Some went on West to stake their claims, some stayed there by the sea,
Grandma hopes to find them all as she climbs the Family Tree.

There were pioneers and patriots mixed within our kith and kin,
Who blazed the paths of wilderness and fought through thick and thin.
But none more staunch than grandma, whose eyes light up with glee,
Each time she finds a missing branch for the Family Tree.

Their skills were wide and varied from carpenter to cook,
And one, alas, the records show was hopelessly a crook.
Blacksmith, farmer, weaver, judge, some tutored for a fee,
One lost in time, now all recorded on the Family Tree.

To some it's just a hobby, to Grandma it's much more.
She learns the joys and heartaches of those who went before.
They loved, they lost, they laughed, they wept - and now for you and me
they live again in spirit around the Family Tree.

At last she's nearly finished, ane we are each exposed,
Life will be the same again, this we all suppose.
Grandma will cook and sew, serve crullers with our tea,
We'll have her back, just as before that wretched Family Tree.

Sad to relate, the Preacher called and visited for a spell.
We talked about the gospel and other things as well,
The heathon folk, the poor, and then ? twas fate, it had to be ?
Somehow the conversation turned to Grandma and the Family Tree.

We tried to change the subject, we talked of everything,
but then in Grandmas voice we heard that old familier ring.
She told him all about the past, and soon twas plain to see,
The Preacher, too, was neatly snared by Grandma and the Family Tree.

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Goodbye

And now we begin
To say goodbye
For we must art
And go our separate ways...
But we leave
So much stronger
We have given each other
Something that will strengthen us
On our journeys
The memories
of Sharing
Respect
and love

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Good Advice

If you want happiness for an hour --- take a nap.
If you want happiness for a day --- go fishing.
If you want happiness for a month --- get married.
If you want happiness for a year --- inherit a fortune.
If you want happiness for a lifetime --- help someone else.

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God's Garden

God saw her getting tired,
When a cure was not to be.
He clasped His hand around hers
and whispered "Come with me."

She didn't deserve what she went through
And so He gave her rest,
God's garden must be beautiful,
For He only takes the best.

God was watching from above,
And knew she had her share.
He gently closed her weary eyes,
And took her in His care.

The golden gates stand open,
He knew she needed rest.
God's garden must be beautiful,
He only takes the best.

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Sunday, September 23, 2007

Genealogy by Virginia Hopkins


Through endless day and sleepless night,
My mind on thoughts of geneology fly.
A dear departed trying to reach,
Geneology, geneology they would preach, preach, preach.

Your'e my only hope,
What a scarey thought.
On me you depend?
God's help I sought.

Now in my sleep,
I do recall,
A journal kept,
By my Aunt Bicall.

Did she know, how could she know?
The records she kept, of deaths and births, of marriage, divorce and every adventure,
Would someday be a sacred proof
Of our families existence from mortal birth.

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Friendship Wish by Susan Simmons


Somewhere out there,
There's someone who needs a smile

Somewhere out there,
There's someone who needs a touch of your hand

There's someone who needs a kind word.
Some understanding.
Forgiveness.
A whisper of appreciation.

Someshere out there,
There's someone who needs something to eat.
A place out of the cold.
A pair of warm socks.

Somewhere out there,
There's a soul who needs to be remembered.
Just remembered.
Even that will do.

As you live your life from this moment to next,
Please think about those whose paths you cross.
Even if they stand right in front of you,
Take one little step that can,
And will,
Make all the difference in the world.

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Friends Without Faces


We sit and we type, and we stare at our screens
We all have to wonder, what this possibly means.

With our mouse we roam, through the rooms in a maze
Looking for something or someone, as we sit in a daze.

We chat with each other, we type all our woes
Small groups we do form, and gang up on our foes.

We wait for somebody, to type out our name
We want recognition, but it is always the same.

We give kisses and hugs, and sometimes flirt
In IMs we chat deeply, and reveal why we hurt.

We do form friendships - but - why we don't know
But some of these friendships, will flourish and grow.

Why is it on screen, we can be so bold
Telling our secrets, that have never been told.

Why is it we share, the thoughts in our mind
With those we can't see, as though we were blind.

The answer is simple, it is as clear as a bell.
We all have our problems, and need someone to tell.

We can't tell real people, but tell someone we must
So we turn to the 'puter, and to those we can trust.

Even though it is crazy, the truth still remains
They are Friends Without Faces, and odd little names.

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Friendly Introduction


Hi! It's nice to meet you. Oh, you have children too?
They sure can be a handful, but, they bring a love that's true.
How can we have so many living in one house?
I'm here to say that sometimes it is quiet as a mouse.

We have three white kids, and we have a black
We also have a brown child. What do you think of that?
I'm sure that you are curious. Have we lost our wits?
But, this is what works for us and that's the whole of it.

Our colorful children make a rainbow bright
Each brings a special feeling, a new spectrum of light.
Each is individual, very special on their own
Each plays an important part in our cozy home.

Anyway, it's nice to know you. I hope to be your friend
To share the good times and the bad, I have a hand to lend.
Maybe, if we can begin to accept each as they are
We can enjoy some time together and our friendship can go far.

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Flower

Here's a flower from me to you,
Just in case your feeling blue.
Know that someone is thinking
of you dearly,
Daily, monthly, yearly.
So smile for me.
And let the sun shine through,
For there's someone,
Somewhere,
Watching over you.

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Saturday, September 22, 2007

Fingerprints


Sometimes you get discouraged
Because I am so small
And always leave my fingerprints
On furniture and walls.

But everyday I'm growing--
I'll be grown up someday
And all those tiny handprints
Will surely fade away.

So here's a final handprint
Just so you can recall
Exactly how my fingers looked
When I was very small.

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Father's Day


"Walk a little slower, Daddy",
Said a little child so small.
"I'm following in your footsteps,
And I don't want to fall.

Sometimes your steps are very fast,
Sometimes they're hard to see;
So walk a little slower, Daddy,
For you are leading me.

Someday when I'm all grown up,
You're what I want to be;
Then I will have a little child
Who'll want to follow me.

And I would want to lead just right,
And know that I was true;
So, walk a little slower, Daddy,
For I must follow you."

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Farewell My Children

Farewell, my dear children;
We had some good times.
Farewell, my children;
It's time to say good-bye.
Farewell, my children;
I'll remember all the glad times
And the sad times.
Farewell, my children;
It is time to move along.
I wanted you to be around for many days
I wanted to watch you laugh and play.

You've seen many storms in life.
You've seen toil,
You've seen strife.
You've been a shelter
From the storm
When it's been cold.
You kept me warm
And the memory of you
Will stay deep in my heart
And I will never forget
How you opened a door
For I will never forget

Farewell, my dear angels;
it is time to say, good-bye.
Farewell, my children;
It is time to move along.

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Family Quilt

Our family is like a patchwork quilt
with kindness gently sewn.
Each piece is an original
with beauty all its own.
With threads of warmth and happiness
it is tightly stitched together.
To last in love throughout the years.
Our family is forever.

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Estonian Lullaby by Lael W. Hill

Here is my baby, as new as the dawn,
With never a shift nor a shirt to put on;
Little white lamb, give your soft wool to me,
To robe my child warmly and beautifully.

Here is my baby with nothing to wear
But wind on her fingers and snow in her hair;
Little white rabbit, oh, give me your fur
To make a warm hood and small mittens for her.

Here is my baby with bare little toes
And never a shoe for the long way she goes;
Little white kid, I pray, give me your skin
To make some soft boots for my child to walk in.

Little white rabbit, O little white lamb
And little white kid, how grateful I am!
Though night be upon her, though winter grow deep,
My baby, all safe and warm, smiles in her sleep.

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Encircled In His Arms

Please forgive me, I hated no one more than thee. How could I have forgotten thy promise to love and protect me? My mind was cluttered with anger and pain, and chains which held my soul. Now through the layers of time I know, thou wast with me and held me and cried.

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Dreams Are Made For Dancing by Selia Qyrin

I see you walking down a lonely road.
Tell me sister will you share your load with me?
I'll share my energy.
'Cause once upon a long and lonely time,
You saved a life and you know it was mine.
So it's my turn this time.

We meet again on sacred ground,
Entwining dreams make twirling sounds.
So let us pour another round,
And drink to what is coming down today.
Dreams are made for dancing,
And friends were made to share
The burden upon your spirit.
As love was made to care

I see you walking down a lonely road.
Tell me sister will you share your load with me?
I'll share my energy.
Long ago, maybe a million years.
You gave me strength when I had only fear,
And I just gave you grateful tears.

We meet again on sacred ground1
Entwining dreams make twirling sounds.
So let us pour another round,
And drink to what is coming down today.
Dreams are made for dancing,
And friends were made to share.
The tender, enchanted moments,
As we pass this time so fair.

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Don't Quit

When things go wrong as they sometimes will,
When the road your're trudging seems all up hill,
When the funds are low and debts are high,
And you want to smile but you have to sigh,
When care is pressing, you down a bit,
Rest if you must, but don't you quit.

LIfe is queer, with its twists and turns,
As every one of us sometimes learns,
And many a failure turns about,
When he might have won, had he not struck out?

Don't give up though the pace seems slow,
You may succeed with another blow,
Success is failure turned inside out,
The silver tint of the clouds of boubt.

And you never can tell how close you are;
It may be near when it seems so far,
So stick to the fight when your hardest hit,
It's when things seem worse that you must not quit.

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Dirty Hands


Sometimes you get discouraged
Because I am so small
And always leave my fingerprints
On furniture and walls.

But every day I'm growing
And I'll be grown someday
And all those tiny handprints
Will surely fade away.

So here's a final handprint
Just so you can recall
Exactly how my fingers looked
When I was very small.

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Desiderata

Go Placidly amid the noise and haste, and
Remember what peace there may be in silence.
As far as possible without surrender
be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly, and listen to others,
even the dull and ignorant: they too have their story.
Avoid loud and aggressive persons,
they are vexations of the spirit.
If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain & bitter,
for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.
Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.
Keep interested in your own career, however humble;
it is a real possesion in the changing fortunes of time.
Exercise caution in your business affairs;
for the world is full of trickery.
But let this not blind you to what virtue there is:
many persons strive for high ideals,
and everywhere life is full of heroism.
Be yourself. Especially, do not feign affection.
Neither be cynical about love;
for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment
it is as perennial as the grass.
Take kindly the counsel of the years,
gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune.
But do not distress yourself with imaginings.
Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.
Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself.
You are a child of the universe: you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you,
no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.
Therefore be at peace with God ,
whatever you conceive him to be,
and whatever your labours and aspirations,
in the noisy confusion of life
keep peace with your soul.
With all its sham, drudgery & broken dreams,
it is still a beautiful world.
Be careful. Strive to be happy.

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Death Of An Innocent


I went to a party, Mom, I remembered what you said.
You told me not to drink, Mom, so I drank soda instead.
I really felt proud inside, Mom, the way you said I would.
I didn't drink and drive, Mom, even though the others said I should.

I know I did the right thing, Mom, I know you are always right.
Now the party is finally ending, Mom, as everyone is driving outof sight.
As I got into my car, Mom, I knew I'd get home in one piece.
Because of the way you raised me, so responsible and sweet.

I started to drive away, Mom, but as I pulled out into the road,
the other car didn't see me, Mom, and hit me like a load.
As I lay there on the pavement, Mom, I hear the policeman say,
the other guy is drunk, Mom, and now I'm the one who will pay.

I'm lying here dying, Mom.. I wish you'd get here soon.
How could this happen to me, Mom? My life just burst like a balloon.
There is blood all around me, Mom, and most of it is mine.
I hear the medic say, Mom, I'll die in a short time.

I just wanted to tell you, Mom, I swear I didn't drink.
It was the others, Mom. The others didn't think.
He was probably at the same party as I.
The only difference is, he drank and I will die.

Why do people drink, Mom? It can ruin your whole life.
I'm feeling sharp pains now. Pains just like a knife.
The guy who hit me is walking, Mom, and I don't think it's fair.
I'm lying here dying and all he can do is stare.

Tell my brother not to cry, Mom. Tell Daddy to be brave.
And when I go to heaven, Mom, put "Daddy's Girl" on my grave
Someone should have told him, Mom, not to drink and drive.
If only they had told him, Mom, I would still be alive.

My breath is getting shorter, Mom. I'm becoming very scared.
Please don't cry for me, Mom. When I needed you, you were always there.
I have one last question, Mom, before I say good bye.
I didn't drink and drive, so why am I the one to die?

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Dad's Poem


Have you ever watched the dawning of the new day.
Sitting in a lawn chair. Or in a rocker. Or on a roof.
I remember one sunrise I watched when I must have been 13 or so.
It took forever.
I have to admit. I think I slept through some parts.
I wish I could tell you about those minutes as they slipped past in the dark.
The group of us sat huddled and cold, but laughing and expectant.
If we waited long enough, it would come.
Could we read the future with all of it's twists and turns and mysteries.
No.
We had our unshakable faith in the order and rightness of things.
We knew beyond a doubt that just as morning had followed night
since the time that the Savior had made it so
it would come again this morning
and fall on our smiling faces.

Did you ever watch the dawning of a miracle?
Watch as a family's prayers where answered in good time?
Did you wonder at the slowness of its coming?
We waited so long, our family,
With tears and prayers and faith in its dawning.
Could we read the future with all its twists and turns and mysteries?
No.
We had our unshakable faith in the Lord's time and plan,
Our knowledge that the Father loves his son.
And as the light grew, we sat in wondering awe
As the light of Christ arose
And shone upon his face.

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Creation by Ragna Engvik


When God created the homemaker,
He was really tired.
All week through he had created,
and now he a lot of left-overs.
And he asked himself:
"What on earth should I do
with all these left overs?
There is such a variety."

He scratched his head and thought:
I actually have enough men.
And , of course men are divine,
and I can't create
something divine from left overs.
There shouldn't be more women,
because they are light-minded and they provoke.
He pondered on this for a while
-and then He said:

Maybe I can create a person
Who is a little different than the others.
With this variety,
it could be a kind of reserve person.
A person - who didn't stand out,
but was always there
- and would be there when the need arose.
So God worked quickly.
He gathered together all the remains
of all he had created
-of teachers, doctors, psykolgists,
technicians, diplomats
police, the remains of "jack-of-all-trades"
and all the others.
He blended in love, bitterness, submission,
rebellion, joy, desperation, duty, indifference,
perseverence, impatience
-in short-all the qualities
he felt this person should have
-and he emptied it all into a sack.
He threw in a couple of pinches of self-worth
and a couple of sighs from the heart.

He tied the sack and shook it
until the contents became pliable.
Of this He created
a person - a women
- and he called her a homemaker.

And God looked with satisfaction
on his work and said:
Verliy I say unto you!
This is the best I have created.

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Birth


Thank you for preparing this little body
For the spirit I have created
Now I present her to you
For a season to care for.
Please teach her of me
And of my SON
I, so much want her back
With me someday

Remember This:
She is loving
She will respond to teaching
She wants to learn
Please treat her with repect.
The road will not be easy
Some of the time
It will be most difficult
I want to help you raise her
Please call on me often
For advise and counsel together
We can help her
Fulfill her beautiful purpose on earth

Love
Your Heavenly Father

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Believe in Yourself by Bruce B. Wilmer

Believe in yourself
To the depth of your being.
Nourish the talents
Your spirit is freeing.

Know in your heart
When the going gets slow
That your faith in yourself
Will continue to grow.

Don't forfeit ambition
When others may doubt.
It's your life to live ---
You must live it throughout.

Learn from your errors ---
Don't dwell in the past.
Never withdraw
From a world that is vast.

Believe in yourself;
Find the best that is you.
Let your spirit prevail;
Steer a course that is true.

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Apocalypse by Kitty Tilton


They will be strange,
those days,
when the earth shudders and moans in travail
and the heavens rehearse a final madrigal
to the triumph of the Son.
They will be dark
with the night of many blackened souls
spitting their allegiance to the one
who will soon no longer reign.

I may fear,
but I will also rejoice.
I will stand with my soul
stretched up to the light.
I know I must prepare,
and I have my own oil.
But on that final night of all
as we await the Bridegroom's call
Will you share your flame?

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And Such is Dying

I am standing
upon the seashore. A ship
at my side spreads her white
sails to the morning breeze and
starts for the blue ocean. She is an
object of beauty and strength and I
stand and watch her until at length she
hangs like a speck of white cloud where the
sea and the sky come down to mingle with
each other; Then someone at my side says,
"There, she's gone."
Gone where? Gone from my sight, that is all,
She is just as large in mast and hull and spar
as she was when she left my side, and just as
able to bear her load of living weight to the
place of destination. Her diminished size is
in me, not in her, and just at that moment
when someone at my side said;
"There, she's gone."
There are other eyes watching her coming,
and other voices to take the glad
shout, "There, she's coming!"
And such is dying.

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And God Said No

I asked God to take away my pride.
And God said, "No".
He said it was not for him to take away, but for me to give up.

I asked God to make my handicapped child whole.
And God said, "No".
He said his spirit is whole, his body is only temporary.

I asked God to grant me patience.
And God said, "No".
He said that patience is a by product of tribulation. It isn't granted,
it's only earned.

I asked God to give me happiness.
And God said, "No".
He said he gives us blessings, happiness is up to me.

I asked God to spare me pain.
And God said, "No".
He said I must grow on my own, but he will prune me and make me
fruitful.

I asked God if He loved me.
And God said, "Yes".
He gave me his only son who died for me and I will be in heaven someday,
because I believe.

I asked God to help me love others as much a He loves me.
And God said, "Ah, finally you have the idea."

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A Time to Love

To everything there is a season
and a time to every purpose under heaven,
A time to be born and a time to die,
a time to weep and a time to laugh,
A time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing.

T time to live. There will be a time to love,
time for me and someone who is waiting, too,
for a time to love.
The right to love, when the season's right for love
and the reason's clean and clear ...
A time will be here ... A time for love.

I'll wait ... I'll watch ... I'll grow ...
and than one day I'll know
It's time to love. I will see it's time to love,
Time for me and someone who is waiting, too,
for a time, a time to love.

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A Prayer

O God, give us faith in mankind,
Faith to clasp our hands in Thine;
Give us courage to do our best,
Courage of hope and blessedness.

Give us strength to do Thy will,
Strength to help and strength to heal;
Give us nerve never to sin,
Nerve to do good and to win.

Give us a rich life to live,
A life where we can forget and forgive;
Give us days full of laughter and smiles,
Days that will make our lives worthwhile.

This is the prayer we ask of You,
A prayer not unkind or untrue;
Asking for faith, hope and love,
Asking for words to teach of the Lord above.

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Sister Missionary


As I stared out the window in silence
and wiping the tears form my eyes
I see all the faces of those that I love
we had just said our last good-byes.
The ride was long and trying
And two questions were plaguing my mind
Do I want the life that lies ahead
or the one that I just left behind.
Eighteen months is such a long time,
But others have given much more.
It's contagious, this desire to keep driving on,
And hope for the very next door.
In no time at all you cherish each day,
The work is replaced with a song
All the good you can do, today's not enough
There's more and then more as time goes on.
As I sit once again reflecting
That the time has so swiftly gone by
It's strange how this feeling's familiar
And I blush cause I'm starting to cry.
As I stare out the window in silence
Wiping the tears from my eyes
I see all the missionaries and the contacts I love
We have just said our last good byes
The ride was long and trying
And two questions were plaguing my mind
Do I want the life thae lies ahead
Or the one that I just left behind.

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A Mother's Temple by Hattie V. Hall


A builder builded a temple;
He wrought it with care and skill--
Pillars and groins and arches,
All fashioned to do his will.
And men said, as they saw its beauty,
"It never shall know decay.
Great is thy skill, O builder!
Thy fame shall endure for aye!"

A mother builded a Temple
With infinate loving care,
Planning each stone with patience,
Laying each stone with prayer.
None praised her unceasing effort,
None knew of her wondrous plan,
For the temple the mother builded
Was unseen by the eye of man.

Gone is the builder's temple--
Crumbled into the dust;
Low lies each stately pillar,
Food for consuming rust.
But the temple the mother builded
Will last while the ages roll,
For that beautiful unseen temple
Held a child's immortal soul.

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A Friend's Greeting by Edgar A. Guest

I'd like to be the sort of friend that you have been to me;
I'd like to be the help that you've been always glad to be;
I'd like to mean as much to you each minute of the day
As you have meant, old friend of mine, to me along the way.

I'd like to do the big things and the splendid things for you,
To brush the gray from out your skies and leave them only blue;
I'd like to say the kindly things that I so oft have heard,
And feel that I could rouse your soul the way that mine you've stirred.

I'd like to give you back the joy that you have given me,
Yet that were wishing you a need I hope will never be;
I'd like to make you feel as rich as I, who travel on
Undaunted in the darkest hours with you to lean upon.

I'm wishing at this Christmas time that I could but repay
A portion of the gladness that you've strewn along my way;
And could I have one wish this year, this only would it be:
I'd like to be the sort of friend that you have been to me.

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A Black Name Tag


A Black Name tag upon my chest
We are the men, the church's best.
Some may boast and some may brag,
But only a few wear the Black name tag.

Twenty-four months without a date.
But we are tough, we can wait,
Our girls at home, they never brag...
Their brave men wear the Black name tag.

Back at home our girlfriends wait,
But not for long, she starts to date,
Her interest soon begins to lag,
She soon "Dear Johns" the Black name tag.

On our return we resume life,
Start our search to find a wife.
But finds are few and efforts lag,
But such is life for the Black name tag.

You find a fox, she has her man,
You find a chick, she has a plan.
You find the one, but what a drag,
Cause she wants to wear The Black name tag.

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A Bag of Tools by R.L. Sharpe

Isn't it strange
That princes and kings
And clowns that caper
In sawdust rings,
And common people
Like you and me
Are builders for eternity?

Each is given a bag of tools,
A shapeless mass,
A book of rules;
And each must make,
Ere life is flown,
A stumbling block
Or a stepping stone.

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900 Different Churches

David McDonough

900 different churches, Christians all they say.
They all believe in Jesus Christ, but in a different way.
Truth is not confusing, the Bible's all you need.
A fella read it down the road, and started his own creed.

The Government they've got taxes, it's the legal word for steal.
The doctors they don't rob you, they just present you with a bill.
The crooks and thieves and bandits they get all that they can take.
And then that good ole country preacher, just passes that ole plate.

So many different churches, what am I to do?
There's a church on every corner, by the way, which faith are you?
If you want to start your own church, it just all right with me.
But don't be disagreeable, just because we disagree.

The church down on the corner...they all sing and dance.
The church next door to that one, they give out trading stamps.
If you want to hear good music, there's one on 2nd street.
They don't teach much religion, but they sure can keep a beat!

2 guys standing on an island, both had been left in the lurch.
A Bible washed upon the shore, and they both started their own church.
And every Sunday morning, throughout the Sabbath day,
They'd bicker, read the scriptures, and interpret them a different way.

I said "A church without a piano is like a bird without a perch."
The minister said "its not in the Bible, so it shouldn't be in the church."
I said "Do you have a bathroom?" He said "Does nature call?"
I said "Is it in the Bible?" He said, "No, it's down the hall."

I think it's gonna rain, I think it's gonna pour.
I think it's really gonna flood for forty days or more.
And all the Sunday Christians that ever did exist,
Will soon be under water, reading scriptures with the fish.

Among the mass confusion, the Gospel can't belong.
And even though you are sincere, you are sincerely wrong!
Like in the time of Noah, surely you must confess,
We need more than the Bible, to clear up all this mess!!!

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12 Things To Remember by Marshal Field

The value of Time.
The pleasure of Working
The worth of Character
The influence of Example
The improvement of Talent

The success of Perseverance
The dignity of Simplicity
The power of Kindness
The obligation of Duty
The virtue of Patience
The joy of Originating

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Summer Activities

(Every summer, across the land the refrain is heard from kids on summer vacation. "What can I do now? Judy Keller, who provided insight in selling a home, provides us with some recipes for supplies for kid's activities that won't overheat your budget. Dollar Stretcher thanks Judy and challenges our readers to send in your suggestions for kid's summer activities.)

Keeping the kids busy during summer vacation can call for lots of art materials and sometimes, that can mean spending big bucks. With these recipes, you can have the basics for just pennies. Chalk for sunny sidewalks drawings, home-brewed watercolors and handcrafted stickers add up to some playtime fun.

With this solution, you can turn magazine pictures, wrapping paper motifs, or comic cutouts into customized stickers.

STICKER SOLUTION
1 teaspoon flavored gelatin
2 teaspoons boiling water


Place gelatin & boiling water in a small bowl. Stir until the gelatin is dissolved. Let mixture cool 1 minute. While the sticker solution is warm, brush a thin coat on the back of each cut out. Use your finger or a small brush. When dry you can lick them & stick them on paper or glass just like a real stamp!

This chalk is great fun--but make sure the kids don't eat it.

EGGSHELL SIDEWALK CHALK
1 teaspoon very hot tap water
food coloring (optional)


Wash & dry eggshells. Put into bowl & grind into a powder. Discard any large pieces. Place flour and hot water in another bowl. Add 1 tablespoon eggshell powder and mix until a paste forms. Add food coloring if desired.

Shape and press mixture firmly into the shape of a chalk stick, and roll up tightly in a strip of paper towel. Allow to dry approximately 3 days until hard. Remove paper towel. Presto! You have chalk! Eggshell chalk is for sidewalks only.

Making these water colors can be a lesson in kitchen chemistry!

WATERCOLORS
1 tablespoon white vinegar
1 1/2 tablespoon baking soda
1 tablespoon cornstarch
1/2 teaspoon glycerin
Food coloring


Mix vinegar & baking soda in small bowl & allow to foam. After foaming stops add cornstarch & glycerin and stir very well....up to a couple of minutes. Portion the mixture into a paint palette, muffin tin or similar container and add food coloring. Make the colors dark because drying and use will lighten them. Clean supermarket meat trays can be used for this, too. But make sure these are washed in an antibacterial solution first. Allow watercolors to dry in a warm place for several hours or overnight

Makes 1 set of Watercolors

Gary Foreman
"The Dollar Stretcher"
gary@stretcher.com
http://www.stretcher.com/dollar

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Mommy and Son Activity

Everyone must have a partner and since it's a Mommy/Son thing that problem is solved for you. Stand them up together...each one facing their partner. Hand each team of 2 a roll of toilet paper. Tell them to decide which person on the team wants to hold the toilet paper roll. After they have made their decision, then tell them that the person holding the roll must wrap the other person completely from head to toe. The first one to complete this wins... Sounds kinda corny but it is really fun. At our party we gave a toilet brush with a big bow around it to the winner as a gag gift. Hope this helps. Good Luck with your party!

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What Can I do to Build Zion by Mary Ellen Smoot

Relief Society General President Spring 2001 Open House
During the past six months I have visited many wards and stakes in the United States and in Caracas, Venezuela; Guatemala; El Salvador; and Mexico. I feel much like Joseph Smith did when he visited the Saints, his friends, in Missouri: "[I] received a welcome only known by brethren and sisters united as one in the same faith, and by the same baptism, and supported by the same Lord" (History of the Church, 1:269)

Relief Society now includes 4.75 million women in 165 countries and territories around the world, but we share the same faith, the same baptism, and are supported by the same Lord. You and I are a part of the Lord's organization for women!

A few weeks ago I was in El Salvador three days after the second earthquake. I visited with a bishop and a member of the stake presidency and their families who had been left homeless because of the earthquakes--as had many others from their congregation. They had gathered a few of the items that could be saved and placed them in a makeshift storage unit with a tin roof. Even in the midst of rebuilding, this bishop continued to build Zion. There he was, preparing for ward conference! Humanitarian Services had sent bricks and cement which were neatly stacked to rebuild the home. Blankets, hygiene kits, water and food were soon delivered. Because of your great efforts we are prepared to help.

We thank you for what you are doing to bring comfort and relief. Many sisters have sent information regarding service projects in which their wards and stakes are involved. I want to assure you that the items you make and send to the Humanitarian Service Center are greatly needed and well received. One of the bishop's sons I previously mentioned who is partially paralyzed just received a wheelchair from Humanitarian Services. This will allow him to gain strength in the upper part of his body and to move from place to place on his own. Can you imagine his joy?

Just look around and see the women of God in our midst. Right here in this room and wherever I travel I see ward and stake Relief Society presidents whose leadership skills could surpass many executives in large corporations--noble women like you who have chosen to build Zion, who create an atmosphere of love, unity, and sisterhood no matter where you serve.

It is a miracle. We are called from full, busy lives to become leaders in Zion. We are set apart and receive the Spirit of the Lord to guide us in our diligent efforts to love and serve. We nurture and care and sacrifice. And we are blessed with abilities beyond our own. It never fails, not because we are foolproof but because this is the Lord's work and His promises are sure. You truly are women of faith, virtue, vision, and charity. Thank you for your righteous examples.

As leaders in the most important women's organization in the world, we must ask ourselves: "What can I do to help build up Zion?" "First and foremost, how can I prepare my own home and family?" "How can I magnify my calling?" and, "Am I prepared to do our Father's will, no matter what it may be, or where it sends me?"

As President Gordon B. Hinckley has said, "If we are to build that Zion of which the prophets have spoken and of which the Lord has given mighty promise, we must set aside our consuming selfishness. We must rise above our love for comfort and ease, and in the very process of effort and struggle, even in our extremity, we shall become better acquainted with our god" ("Our Mission of Saving," Ensign, Nov. 1991, 59).

Today I would like to focus on four ways we can help build Zion in every ward and stake, branch and district, in the Church:
1. Strengthen our homes and families.
2. Show by example we are women of God.
3. Increase our faith through knowledge.
4. Serve.

STRENGTHEN OUR HOMES AND FAMILIES
As we build Zion, beginning in our own homes, not only will the sisters be strengthened, but good women from all over the world will also be drawn to us. If, with every fiber of our being, we live exemplary lives we will witness miracles. President Hinckley has said: "If our society is coming apart at the seams, it is because the tailor and the seamstress in the home are not producing the kind of stitching that will hold under stress" (Conference Report, Oct. 1968, 56).

In the Leadership Training Emphasis document we are told: "Teach the preeminence of the home and family as the basic organizational unit of the Church. Encourage each family member, parents and children, to study the scriptures, pray regularly, and follow the example of the Savior in all things" (Sept. 29, 1995).

The greatest joys we experience in this world will come through loving, building, and lifting family members. Whether our sisters are single or married, family is very important in each of our lives, not only on this earth but as we look to the eternal relationship of family bonds. Think of a home, family, and personal enrichment meeting where skills of family love and learning are developed. Seek opportunities to teach mothers skills in the teaching and training of the children and setting the proper example for them. Encourage mothers to study the gospel with their children and spend time teaching them basic family values. Teach the sisters to treasure family home evening and guard it as a time to teach their children. I know of a ward that used home, family, and personal enrichment meeting to demonstrate how to hold a family home evening for young children, teenagers, and single adults. Children can be taught to be courteous and kind to others. They can be taught to respect authority and fill their lives with activities for personal growth and development.

President Hinckley tells us: "If you want to reform a nation, you begin with families, with parents who teach their children principles and values that are positive and affirmative and will lead them to worthwhile endeavors" ("This Thing Was Not Done in a Corner," Ensign, Nov. 1996, 49).

President David O. McKay was often quoted saying: "I know of no other place where happiness abides more securely than in the home. It is possible to make home a bit of heaven. Indeed, I picture heaven as a continuation of the ideal home" (Conference Report, Apr. 1964, 5)

"The Lord has commanded His children to marry and establish families. Husbands and wives are to love one another with their whole hearts" (Family Guidebook, 1). Paul taught: "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it....And the wife see that she reverence her husband" (Ephesians 5:25,33).

Most young women dream of the day when they will find the right man and be married for time and eternity, have children and live in joy and happiness with them. When this event occurs she must have the necessary skills to create a home filled with love and understanding, a home where each member is valued and included. However, many of our sisters face challenges and disappointments. We need to encourage each of them to keep their standards high and do the best they can to develop their potential as daughters of God.

May I share with you an example I will never forget. Last year, Sister Susan Easton Black, a Church history and doctrine professor at Brigham Young University, was a recipient of the Karl G. Maeser Distinguished Faculty Award. At the time, she acknowledged her visiting teacher of 25 years ago. Her visiting teacher had 9 children but had always wanted 12. She was cautioned by her doctor that having more biological children would not be advisable. Sister Black was a single mother with three young sons who had a great yearning and need to go back to school. Here were two sisters with righteous desires--one wanting three more children and one desiring further education.

Sister Black's visiting teacher exemplified Christlike love when, of her own free will, she volunteered to tend this single mother's three sons without being paid so Sister Black could complete her education. The result--both were greatly blessed. Later Sister Black's sons also became well educated. Sister Black said of her visiting teacher, "Her kindness to me so many years ago not only helped in the process of educating a mother, but her kindness educated a family" ("Honored Black Praises Life of Prophet Joseph Smith," Kris Boyle, Daily Universe, Nov. 00, 5)

My dear sisters, the power is in us. We, too, can build Zion. It begins one sister at a time, one family at a time. Personal preparation precedes our ability to lead women and their families to Christ. As spiritual leaders we are sisters who not only pray each morning, but we ask the Lord what we can do to serve Him that day. We ask for the Spirit of the Lord to guide us, and then we read the scriptures. We fast and pray and go to the temple for inspiration. If each of us is willing to do this, we will be in a position to become examples to the world.

Years ago, President John Taylor gave us some strong advice. He said: "Never mind the world nor what they can say or do....We will send out the Gospel to them, and continue to advocate the principles of truth, and to organize ourselves according to the order of God, and seek to be one--for if we are not one we are not the Lord's and never can be, worlds without end. Hear it, you Latter-day Saints! And do not be figuring for yourselves and for your own aggrandizement; but feel to say in your hearts, 'What can I do to help to build up Zion?'" (John Taylor, Journal of Discourses, 21:254).

In the September 2000 General Relief Society Meeting, President Gordon B. Hinckley admonished each of us: "When you are united your power is limitless. You can accomplish anything you wish to accomplish. And oh, how very, very great is the need for you in a world of crumbling values where the adversary seems so very much to be in control" ("Your Greatest Challenge, Mother," Ensign, Nov. 2000, 97). I have seen examples in my life where a father and mother who were united in their cause were able to teach their children great principles and develop spirituality in families--even in young children. SHOW BY EXAMPLE THAT WE ARE WOMEN OF GOD One virtue that needs to be developed to accomplish this is the ability to love. President Hinckley tells us:

"Let love become the lodestar of our lives" ("Let Love Be the Lodestar of Your LIfe," Ensign, May 1989, 66).

"Love is the only force that can erase the differences between people, that can bridge the chasms of bitterness" ("And the Greatest of These Is Love," Ensign, Mar. 1984, 5).

"Love, like faith is a gift of God. It is also the most enduring and most powerful virtue" (President Gordon B. Hinckley, Standing for Something, 2000, 3).

No matter who we are, we all can strive to love more. We can ask "What can I do to develop greater love for each member of my family and for each sister in my ward?" It is truly worth the effort. An eternal bonding takes place that blesses the life of every sister and family member as we sincerely ask our Father in Heaven for unconditional love.

Not long ago I met a stake Relief Society president in Lima, Peru, who did all in her power to build Zion. She and her husband and daughter lived in a very poor area. Yet when you turned the corner to their block, their home stood out like an oasis. She and her husband had painted their home; made a small fence of wood; and planted grass, flowers, and a tree in their tiny front yard. Then inside, they had taken native rock and made a fireplace with shelves. They had painted their walls and put up beautiful pictures found in the Liahona. They had even saved their money to buy a piano so their lovely daughter could take piano lessons and play for Church meetings.

When I met this angel mother, this Relief Society sister, I knew she would not last very long in this life. She had cancer from the time her daughter was very young. However, she created a legacy for her daughter and for all she served--the legacy of living the gospel. She did not just belong to the Church; she lived its teachings. The gospel of Jesus Christ was a part of her everyday life. She had learned to make the very best of her situation. And even though she was often ill and had little means, she carried out her Church responsibilities. In her little corner of Peru, she built Zion. And so can each of us!

As you have served in leadership capacities, have you noticed how others watch you? Suddenly you are placed on a pedestal, and your actions are noticed and duplicated? As leaders we have a unique responsibility to set righteous examples. Can you think of how your testimony has been strengthened by righteous leaders? I can. So many have influenced me through the years.

In particular, I remember Sister Spears, the Primary president in my ward when I was a teenager. As a junior in high school, I was asked to be the pianist for Primary, which was held every Wednesday afternoon. My high school was about 10 miles from the church, so I would quickly gather my things after the last bell rang at school and run to catch the city bus. I would get there just in time to fulfill my responsibilities as pianist of the Primary.

I will never forget the impact Sister Spears had on my young life. She loved me and made me feel like she truly needed me. I knew I couldn't let her down. I can remember going to her home for preparation meetings, and even though I was much younger than most of them, they included me and shared with me. My testimony was strengthened by their example. They made our little Clearfield ward a Zion for me.

In 1Timothy 4:12 we read: "...Be thou an example of the believers, in word, in conversation, in charity, in spirit, in faith, in purity." Be an example not just when you are at church or in a meeting--but always. Certainly none of us is perfect (or most likely will not be in this life), but each of us can try a little harder. Each of us can more fully embrace the gospel of Jesus Christ.

Elder Robert D. Hales at the last general conference gave some specific suggestions for how we can become righteous examples. He said: "By choosing to be in His kingdom, we separate--not isolate--ourselves from the world. Our dress will be modest, our thoughts pure, our language clean. The movies and television we watch, the music we listen to, the books, magazines, and newspapers we read will be uplifting. We will choose friends who encourage our eternal goals, and we will treat others with kindness. We will shun the vices of immorality, gambling, tobacco, liquor, and illicit drugs. Our Sunday activities will reflect the commandment of God to remember the Sabbath day and keep it holy. We will follow the example of Jesus Christ in the way we treat others. We will live to be worthy to enter the house of the Lord" (The Covenant of Baptism: To Be in the Kingdom and of the Kingdom," Ensign, Nov. 2000, 8).

Elder Hales' comments on being righteous examples would be a great subject for a home, family, and personal enrichment meeting. Also, we could turn to Proverbs 31:10 or D&C 25:2-16 and discuss the virtues Latter-day Saint women cultivate and how we can best teach these virtues to our young women and friends.

In centuries past, King Benjamin taught his people about what it means to live righteously. He explained: "We [will] have no more disposition to do evil, but...to do his will, and to be obedient to his commandments in all things...all the remainder of our days" (Mosiah 5:2, 5). Let's strengthen each other and support each other in this quest for righteousness.

Recently in a Mexico City ward I was strengthened by the righteous examples of some young sisters and their mother. We watched the sisters, ages 11 and 14, play the prelude music and lead and play every song that was sung. They were responsible for the music in their ward, and they did a great job. They accomplished this because they were taught by their mother.

During that same visit to Mexico I also met an angel mother, a woman with Lou Gehrig's disease who from her wheelchair struggled to form every word she pronounced, and yet she was able to serve in a stake Relief Society presidency. With the support of her wonderful husband and two teenaged children, and loving sisters, she was able to build Zion. She inspired all around her. Like these sisters we have talked about, we can all adopt these characteristics to build Zion and make them a part of our lives. INCREASE OUR FAITH WITH KNOWLEDGE

"The glory of God is intelligence" (D&C 93:36), and as women in the Lord's organization, we should seek to love life and learning. Food nourishes the body, but lasting nourishment to the soul comes from studying the doctrines of the kingdom. On the shore of the Sea of Galilee, the resurrected Lord asked Peter three times, "Lovest thou me?" Each time Peter's replies were the same: "Thou knowest that I love thee." To Peter's declarations the Lord responded: "Feed my lambs....Feed my sheep....Feed my sheep" (John 21:15-17).

The Lord's instruction to Peter applies to all who have been called to His service. President Gordon B. Hinckley wrote: "There is hunger in the land, and a genuine thirst--a great hunger for the word of the Lord and an unsatisfied thirst for things of the Spirit.... The world is starved for spiritual food. Ours is the obligation and the opportunity to nourish the soul ("Feed the Spirit, Nourish the Soul," Ensign, Oct. 1998, 2; see also Amos 8:11-12).

We must begin by keeping our daughters and sons at our side and teaching them correct principles. I find myself wondering, as leaders of the sisters in Zion, if we are feeding His sheep. Are we reading the scriptures every day with our families and encouraging our sisters to do the same? Can we not afford to give the Lord one percent of the 24 hours He gives us each day to pray, read, study, and learn His doctrine?

A year ago my husband was listening to early-morning BYU devotional, and Elder L. Tom Perry was the speaker. He told how he and his wife determined many years before to begin each day reading at least two chapters of scripture. He explained that if you do this, you can read the Book of Mormine, the Doctrine and Covenants, the Pearl of Great Price, and the New Testament in one year. My husband and I put this to the test last year starting on January 6, 2000, and by New Year's Eve 2000 we had completed the assignment. This has been one of the most nurturing experiences we have had together. We were so pleased with the results that we started at the beginning of the Book of Mormon again this year. New Year's Day we read the first chapter of Nephi and just through the month of January we read all of 1 and 2 Nephi and Jacob. It only takes from 5 to 15 minutes, and it is the most worthwhile reading we do. Now we are reading the last chapters of Alma.

As leaders we cannot give what we do not have. Inspiration comes through studying the doctrine in the scriptures. President Boyd K. Packer teaches: "True doctrine, understood, changes attitudes and behaviors. The study of the doctrines of the gospel will improve behavior quicker than a study of behavior will improve behavior" (See Conference Report, Oct. 1986, 20). It is vital in these last days that we become more knowledgeable about the Lord's true doctrine. Reading the scriptures and studying the word of God will keep us on a righteous path.

Book of Mormon prophets foresaw our day and warned us to hold onto the truth we've been given. In 2 Nehpi 28:14 we read: "They wear stiff necks and high heads; yea, and because of pride, and wickedness, and abominations, and whoredoms, they have all gone astray save it be a few, who are the humble followers of Christ." And in verse 30 it says: "I will give unto the children of men line upon line, precept upon precept, here a little and there a little; and blessed are those who hearken unto my precepts, and lend an ear unto my counsel, for they shall learn wisdom; for unto him that receiveth I will give more; and from them that shall say, We have enough, from them shall be taken away even that which they have."

As Relief Society leaders, one way we can help build Zion in our ward or branch is to enthusiastically teach gospel literacy. Encourage scripture study and reading the conference addresses from our leaders. Implore mothers to read to their children and create an atmosphere of learning in their homes, where their children know they can retreat for peace, quiet, and daily study. Excellent chapters are prepared in Teaching, No Greater Call that could be used in home, family, and personal enrichment meeting to help sisters develop greater teaching skills--whether they are mothers, grandmothers, aunts, or sisters. These resource materials can change lives when put into practice. SERVE

A Spokane stake was recently involved in a service project. In addition to hygiene kits, newborn kits, education kits, a collection of coats for children, donated units of blood, and lap quilts for a nursing home, baby quilts were also made and given to a local hospital for patients. One of the little girls who received a quilt was from El Salvador. As the mother tried to return the quilt at the end of the child's hospital stay, it was explained to her, through an interpreter, that the blanket was a gift from the Relief Society sisters of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. The mother began to cry and explained that she was a member of this same Church in her country. She said she was anxious to tell her Relief Society sisters in El Salvador how grateful she was for the sisters in the Spokane stake for the gift of a quilt that had brought such comfort to her daughter.

The Lord declared: "He that findeth his life shall lose it: and he that loseth his life for my sake shall find it" (Matthew 10:39). "These words have something more than a cold theological meaning. They are a statement of a law of life--that as we lost ourselves in a great cause we find ourselves--and there is no greater cause than that of the Master" (Elder Gordon B. Hinckley in Conference Report, Apr. 1966, 87).

On another occasion, President Hinckley as a member of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles taught: "The cause of Christ does not need your doubt; it needs your strength and time and talents; and as you exercise these in service, your faith will grow and your doubts will wane" ("The Miracle That Is Jesus," Improvement Era, Jun. 1966, 531).

In a certain area in Guatemala City, parents work in the streets vending various items during the day. Their young children, starting about three months to six years of age, are cared for in a school run by Sister Rose Rodriguez, a nurse, and a member of our Church for 24 years. The children are cared for, bathed, fed two meals and two snacks a day, and taught. Sister Rodriguez has taught these children to pray the way the members of our faith pray. Some of the other workers are of different beliefs, and try to teach them the way they pray. The children say, "No, I want to pray the way Rosa prays."

The children are learning to read and write and play. Sister Rodriguez wants to get the school accredited through the government for the first and second grade so that when the children leave the school, they will be recognized as having passed the first and second grades. Most of these children will not have an opportunity to further their schooling once they leave. They will be expected to help their parents in the streets. In her own way, Sister Rodriguez in literally saving lives.

Sisters, each one of us is needed. When we are in the service of one another, whether in our own homes, within our ward boundaries, or others with whom we come in contact, we are in His service. A sincere woman once wrote to Mother Teresa and asked if she could come to Calcutta, India to assist with the work of helping the poor. Mother Teresa wisely wrote her and suggested she not come, but that she look around her own community and "find her own Calcutta!" Sometimes I think we look too far from home for service opportunities. We can offer vital services in our own homes, in our own wards and neighborhoods.

An enrichment lesson that is well prepared and invites the Spirit of the Lord is a great service. An uplifting visit from a visiting teacher is a vital service. An extra arm for a busy mother is a Christlike service. Sisters, look around you and find ways to serve and ways to teach our children, grandchildren, and children over whom we can have an influence to serve.

Within the kingdom of God, we do not say "Oh, I've been there and done that." We open our eyes and continually watch for opportunities to serve. Without even being asked, we lend a hand where it is needed. The Lord said "For behold, it is not meet that I should command in all things; for he that is compelled in all things, the same is a slothful and not a wise servant" (D&C 58:26). We can get so caught up in our own challenges that we sometimes forget that it takes each one of us to build Zion.

We each have a mission to perform. Our calling came at baptism, and as long as we remain worthy, we will not be released from this calling. Alma taught, at the waters of Mormon, about our baptismal covenant: "As ye are desirous to come into the fold of God, and to be called his people, and are willing to bear one another's burdens, that they may be light; yea, and are willing to mourn with those that mourn; yea, and comfort those that stand in need of comfort, and to stand as witnesses of God at all times and in all things, and in all places that ye may be in, even until death, that ye may be redeemed of God, and be numbered with those of the first resurrection, that ye may have eternal life" (Mosiah 18:8-9).

Sisters, service is part of who we are as Relief Society sisters. We build Zion by serving others. Don't wait for a formal invitation to help someone in need. Just do what you can. Combine your efforts with other sisters', and make good use of the channels of organization already in place. The system works, if we will but put our shoulder to the wheel. If our individual homes are in order and everyone in the ward is cared for, we can periodically have a service project where we can contribute to the needs of the community and people around the world through humanitarian efforts.

We know what great things you are capable of doing. We've seen you in action. And on a general level, we have board members on every welfare committee. All around the world, sisters like you are doing incalculable good. Recently, in Utah, Relief Society sisters have prepared hygiene kits and a quilt for every woman (and her children) who enters a shelter for abused women. Now they are starting this in Idaho.

I recently received a letter from a local women's shelter. Let me read you a small part of it:

"The women are rather taken back by this [service]: 'Those people don't know me. Why would they want to do something nice for me?' It only takes a moment, however, for them to unfold the quilts and spread them out on their beds, then take each item out of the prepared hygiene kits and exclaim over them too.

"All of us are overwhelmed by the very generous contributions. We are accustomed to getting maybe a dozen or so items at a time, so you can imagine our response to boxes of supplies. So often we have had to tell indigent clients that we are out of supplies at the moment. To be able to tell a client, 'Yes, we can give you soap' or shampoo or whatever, is a fantastic feeling. We are very careful to tell our clients where the supplies came from" (Letter on file in the Relief Society offices).

We cannot thank you enough for spreading your influence around the world. The past two years during BYU women's conference, commodities have been prepared and sent to the far reaches of the globe. Another service project is planned this year during the conference on May 3 and 4 which also includes classes on building the individual women who learns, then teaches the skills to her children, nieces and nephews, or friends. Additional activities include four different family history classes, including one to promote enthusiasm to our youth and teach them how to get started in this fascinating study. Dry-pack canning will be demonstrated and a tasting table provided for sampling of finished products made from food-storage items. A wall of ideas will include suggestions on how to serve within our own family and community.

If we are to be an example to the world and build Zion, we must first strengthen our own homes and families and then teach the importance of families within our ward boundaries. Ward Relief Society leaders as directed by local priesthood leadership can help ensure that each sister has enough food, can pay her rent, can develop skills in self-reliance, and can teach family members these skills. All children deserve to learn from their parents and extended family members how to budget money, how to save for future, how to take care of what they have and develop talents and prepare for a very good education so they will be useful to others.

My dear sisters, this is the Lord's way. Ever since the Relief Society was formed in Nauvoo, its members have loved and served and built Zion. Let me share one last example. When the women of Nauvoo were asked to contribute their dimes and pennies to the building of the temple, Caroline Butler had no money to give. But with all her heart she desired to contribute. One day while driving her wagon into town she noticed two dead buffalo on the side of the road. And she got an idea! Immediately she stopped and, together with her children, pulled the long hair from the buffaloes' manes.

Upon returning home, they washed and carded the hair and spun it into a coarse yarn. With this homespun yarn, she knitted 8 pairs of heavy mittens for the rock cutters who were working on the Nauvoo temple. What ingenuity! What commitment! Think of the righteous example she set for her children who helped her. Think of the warmth she brought not only to the workers but also to those of her own household.

Sisters, let us build Zion. First, by strengthening homes and families, second by setting a righteous example, third by increasing our faith with knowledge, and fourth, by serving. For "When we are in the service of our fellow men [and women], we are only in the service of our God." Of this I testify. In the name of Jesus Christ. Amen.

"Teaching, No Greater Call - Every Sister is a Teacher"
Relief Society

Spring 2001 Open House Workshop REFERENCES
"Effective teaching is the very essence of leadership in the Church. Eternal life will come only as men and women are taught with such effectiveness that they change and discipline their lives. They cannot be coerced into righteousness or into heaven. They must be led, and that means teaching. (Gordon B. Hinckley, Ensign, Jan. 1999, 18)

"The Spirit shall be given unto you by the prayer of faith; and if ye receive not the Spirit ye shall not teach." (D&C 42:14)

"It is the right and privilege of every man, every woman, and every child who has reached the years of accountability, to enjoy the spirit of revelation, and to be possessed of the spirit of inspiration in the discharge of their duties as members of the church." (Teachings of the Presidents of the Church; Joseph F. Smith, 266)

"...stand as witnesses of God at all times and in all things, and in all places..." (Mosiah 18:9)

"...we talk of Christ, we rejoice in Christ, we preach of Christ, we prophecy of Christ, and we write according to our prophecies, that our children may know to what source they may look for the remission of their sins." (2 Nephi 25:26)

"And that from a child thou hast known the holy scriptures, which are able to make thee wise unto salvation through faith which is in Christ Jesus. "All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness: "That the man of God may be perfect, thoroughly furnished unto all good works." (2 Timothy 3:15-17)

..did liken all scriptures unto us, that it might be for our profit and learning." (1 Nephi 19:23)

"A teacher's goal is greater than just delivering a lecture about truth. It is to invite the Spirit and use techniques that will enhance the possibility that the learner will discover the truth [and] be motivated to apply it...." (Virginia Pearce, Ensign, 1996, 12)

SONG "Help Me Teach With Inspiration," (Hymns, 281)

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Visiting Teacher's Song

(tune: Que Sera Sera (what Will Be Will Be)

We've had an awful time this year.
We haven't done any teaching at all.
We have been willing, ready to go,
Until our partners call:
"I can't go today. I just got some company.
I couldn't leave them, you see,
They're from far away. I can't go today."

When it was January first
We vowed together, we wouldn't miss.
Then on the last day of the first month,
I got a call like this:
"I can't go today. My hubby is taking me
Downtown with him, so you see,
I can't get away. Try some other day."

When February came I called,
"Better go teaching, don't you agree?"
"What's the hurry, we've got all month."
Then came her call to me:
"I can't go today. My laundry's piled up on me.
I've nothing to wear you see.
I am sad to say. I can't go today."

March came in softly like a lamb,
My partner mellowed, I was the same.
She called me early, we made a date,
Then complications came.
"I can't go today. I have such an aching head.
I really should be in bed.
I'll see you around. See you down in town."

April and May were just alike.
She had her daughter home for awhile.
I thought we'd make it, but t'ward the last
Her calls just made me smile.
"I can't go today. We've been so involved somehow
I'm tending my grandkids now,
I just hate to say, I can't get away."

June and July were just too hot.
August we spent getting ready for school.
Then in September we just forgot.
October brought this jewel:
"I can't go today. I just got a job, you see.
I think they're releasing me.
I just hate to shirk, but I need the work."

We hate to break our record now.
We'll just let this year pass us on by.
We've had our problems, but wait and see
Next year we'll really try!
Won't you join us, dear,
And make this a banner year?
We'll have such a lot of fun
If our teaching's done ...
When our teaching's done.
WHEN OUR TEACHING'S DONE!

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The Women Who Knew Jesus


This has been posted at least twice to sister-share. The author is unknown to those who have posted it.

ELIZABETH, mother of John:

I am Elizabeth, the wife of Zacharias, the mother of John, called the Baptist, the cousin of the girl Mary.

The miracle of my conception, the strange and wonderful things that occurred in the life of my husband, the life and death of my son, are most wondrous and filled with the power of the Lord. Were there time, I would tell you of it all from the beginning of those lonely and despairing years when Zacharias and I became convinced that I was the most useless of all vessels, a barren woman, to the tragic death of my fine son at the whim of a court harlot.

I would tell you of the glory and wonder of that day in the house of the Lord, the Temple of the Most High, when a heavenly radiance shone round, and for the first time in many generations, a heavenly messenger appeared. I would try to describe to you the look in the eyes of my aged husband as he suffered the silence of discipline and his exaltation when he was finally able to cry that I, an old woman was to conceive and bare the man child that would make straight the way for the coming of the Lord. I would tell you of that child, of his strength and goodness, of his power and humility, of his complete submission to the will of the Almighty God.

But there is no time, and so, I will share with you only one small moment, most precious to me, that lifted my spirit and made my heart overflow with gratitude and goodness of God.

Within my body, I carried a child. You women who have experienced the wonder and awe of those first trembling movements of beginning life will know what I knew when, as my cousin Mary came to my door, I felt my babe leap within me, as the Holy Ghost bore solemn witness that the chosen mother of the Lord stood before me. I knew that thrill incident to the quickening spirit of my own blessed conception, and I returned her greeting with gratitude and reverence: "Blessed are thou among women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb." She responded, that flawless vessel of the Lord, with one of most beautiful and glorious hymns of praise know to mankind:

"My soul doth magnify the Lord, and my spirit hath rejoiced in God, my Savior. For he hath regarded the low estate of his handmaiden; for, behold, from henceforth all generations shall call me blessed. For he that is mighty hath done to me great things; and holy is his name. And his mercy is on them that fear him from generation to generation. He hath showed strength with his arm; he hath scattered the proud in the imagination of their hearts. He hath put down the might from their seats, and exalted them of low degree. He hath filled the hungry with good things; and the rich he hath sent empty away. He hath helped his servant Israel in remembrance of this mercy; as he spake to our fathers, to Abraham, and his seed forever."

Indeed, he had done all those glorious things. But even more, He had given to mankind, His own son, and for one precious instant in eternity, He had granted to an ordinary old woman, the privilege of a personal witness that this was, indeed, the Christ - Savior of the world. I bear to each of you this day, that same witness.

MUSICAL SELECTION: "O Holy Night"

THE MOTHER OF JOSEPH, the carpenter:

Joseph is my son. He is a quiet man, strong and steady, with eyes, wonderful eyes, kind, and gentle, and warm. When he enters our home in the evenings, with the clean scent of new wood about him and the tiny fragile shavings still slinging to the coarseness of his robe, the room, filled with his presence becomes a place of peace and contentment. And while he is not given to laughter, this serious, soft-spoken son of mine, he has nevertheless, a slow, sweet smile that transforms his face and warms the hearts of those around him. He is a good man, my Joseph, with a deep and abiding faith in God and the strength to keep His laws.

And so it was, when he thought the law had been broken, his eyes spoke of the pain his lips could not, and shadows filled his home where had been only love and light.

You see, Joseph had finished his carpenter apprenticeship and was about to take a wife. He had chosen for his own, the girl Mary, fine and gentle, as pure and as faire as the morning light. And the love they bore, these two, one for the other, made our whole world a better place to be.

And so both familles agreeing, the betrothal ceremony took place. It was as binding as marriage, indeed, by law if the bridegroom should happen to die, the betrothed girl is considered a widow. If she is unfaithful, she is labeled an adulteress. And once betrothed, the only way the contract can be broken is through divorce. I tell you this that you may know the custom here in Galilee, and that you might better begin to understand what was in our hearts in the days that followed.

We were nearly ready, Joseph and I, and Mary and her family. The marriage was to have taken place a year after the betrothal and our time had been spent in carefully, lovingly furnishing the small home that was to be their own, and in preparing for the solemn reception in that home. I was so proud -- proud of my strong son, and proud of the lovely woman he had chosen to share his life.

And then, suddenly, amazingly, heartbreakingly -- Mary was with child. It was not to be believed. Not Mary. And yet it was so. I had only to look into the face of my Joseph to know that the moral agony I saw had nothing to do with rumor or doubt. To divorce or send away the woman he loved; according to Jewish law these were the only two alternatives. She could be sent away to have her child and not return to Nazareth -- hurt, humiliated. Love of the law, love of one's wife-to-be. Joseph was torn with pain and I suffered with him.

And then, like a miracle,the shadows were gone.We say little of what happened that night, for it is a private thing and not to be subjected to the doubts and jeers of a mocking world. What was said in that moment when a messenger of the Lord spoke with my son, is for him alone to know. But the purpose was plain - this woman most dear, was infinitely worthy to become even dearer. Mary of Nazareth, most blessed among women, was to become the mother of the Messiah. With strength and dignity, filled with faith, and the desire to give his Mary as much protection and devotion as possible, Joseph married her immediately, and my heart swelled with pride.

You see, of all the souls in heaven, the Lord God had His choice of the man to be the earthly father of his only begotten son. With great care and deliberation would he have chosen a man to do the thousand, no millions, of gentle, thoughtful things a father does for a beloved son. It was Joseph, who would cradle the babe in his strong, clean, work roughened hands. Joseph who would walk with him in and through the hills and streets and into the synagogues for evening prayers and smile at him across the table.

I, like the Lord, knowing I could not be the earthly companion of my beloved, my ONLY BEGOTTEN SON, were to choose such a companion to take my place, I would choose the best, the very best. I would choose from among the kind of men I had known and respected before the foundations of this world were laid, men like Abraham, Issac, Jacob, Joseph, who was sold into Egypt, Noah, Moses, Enoch, and Elijah. And yet my son, Joseph, the carpenter, was chosen to be the earthly father of Jesus, the Christ -- Savior of the World. Joseph, my son.

MUSICAL SELECTION: "When Joseph Went to Bethlehem"

THE MOTHER OF THE GIRL, MARY:

I am the mother of Mary. And yes, you are right, there is not a great deal said of me, but that is as it should be. My place in the wrap and weave of the patterns of those days is inconspicuous, unheralded, yet it is not without its moments of attending glory. For you see, it is my grandson that is called Redeemer, Savior, Jesus the Christ.

It was my daughter -- young, sweet, pure, and ever obedient to whom Gabriel appeared, my daughter to whom he said, "Hail, thou that are highly favored; the Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou among women."

In common with other daughters of Israel, specifically those of the tribe of Judah and of known descendant from David, my Mary had contemplated with holy joy and ecstasy, the coming of the Messiah through our royal line; she knew that some Jewish maiden was yet to become the mother of the Christ.

But was it possible that the angel's words to her had reference to this supreme expectation and hope of the nation? She had little time to turn these things in her mind, for the angel continued. "Fear not Mary, for thou hast found favor with God. And, behold, thou shalt conceive in thy womb, and bring forth a son, and shalt call his name Jesus. He shall be great, and shall be called the Son of the Highest; and the Lord God shall give unto him the throne of his father David; and he shall reign over the house of Jacob forever; and of his kingdom, there shall be no end."

Even yet she comprehended but in part the importance of this momentous visitation. Not in the spirit of doubt such as had prompted Zacharias to ask for a sign but through an earnest desire for information, she asked, "How shall this be, seeing I know not a man?" This answer to her natural and simple inquiry was the announcement of a miracle through the operation of higher law, such as the human mind ordinarily fails to comprehend or regard possible. Mary was informed she would conceive and in time bring forth a Son, of whom no mortal man would be the father. And the angel answered and said unto her. "The Holy Ghost shall come upon thee, and the power of the Highest shall overshadow thee; therefore also that holy thing that shall be born of thee shall be called the Son of God."

Then the angel told her of the blessed condition of her cousin Elizabeth, who had been barren; and by way of sufficient and final explanation added, "For with God nothing shall be impossible." With gentle submissiveness and humble acceptance the pure young virgin replied, "Behold the handmaiden of the Lord; be it unto me according to thy word."

His message delivered, Gabriel departed, leaving the chosen Virgin of Nazareth to ponder over her wondrous experience. My daughter's promised son was to be "The Only Begotten" of the Father in the flesh. The child Jesus was to inherit the physical, mental and spiritual traits, tendencies, and powers that characterized his parents: one, immortal and glorified -- God; the other human -- woman...my daughter Mary.

This child, whom I had conceived and reared, for whom I had wiped tears and mended broken dolls, who had prayed at m knew and worked at my side, was to be the mother of God. I knew her better than any other person on the face of the earth, and I say to you, she was fit for her calling -- pure, stainless, infinitely good. She had the strength and courage to humbly accept not only the birth, but the crucifixion and death of her perfect son, Jesus of Nazareth. I watched him grow, both in body and spirit, and long before I was called to leave this earth, indeed, even from the very beginning, when an angel of the Lord visited our simple Galilean cottage with the greatest news ever given, I knew that the child Jesus, was, indeed, the Christ. He was my grandson. He is my Lord. I know it. I glory in it. I testify of it. And so be it forever.

MUSICAL SELECTION: "The Daughter of God"

THE WIFE OF THE SHEPHERD:

My husband is a shepherd. And at times, in the spring of the year, when the nights are cool, and the stars hang so low in the heavens I want to reach up and pull one to me with the crooked end of my husband's staff, we go into the fields, and there, together, we watch the flocks.

There are those who say we are poor, that of the many who come and go, wander and stay in this beloved and ancient land, we are the lowliest, and the most humble. Humble? Perhaps. Indeed, it is what we desire. But poor? Oh my friend, if only I could give you the eyes to see, the heart to feel the vastness and incredible beauty of the ageless Judean hills, the deep peace and contentment we've found in this land of unspoiled solitude, the quiet, almost unspeakable joy we feel in the companionship we share, one with another, and with Almighty God. Hardly poor - in fact, infinitely richer than the madman Herod who sits decaying with disease and corruption in his marble palace beyond the hills.

They say of Herod that within his great palace are vast treasures of gold and precious gems. And yet, I, the wife of a lowly shepherd would not part with one instant, be it so small, of the miracle that unfolded before us in the fields, not so very long ago. No, not for a hundred times, and a hundred times again the wealth of the man who dares call himself our king.

They tell of that night, that night of all nights, in a great book --the one you call Bible. It tells in words, lovely and true of that night when worlds and eternity alike stood still, and witnessed the birth of Jesus, the Christ.

And I was there, it was I, I who stood with my heart, my soul, soaring, shivering, singing, while the glory, of the Lord shone around about. The Glory of the Lord -- there are no words to describe it. It was like -- like the very first dawning on all creation, and every dawn thereafter glowing and melting into one -- shimmering, shining, throbbing, awesome and frightening. We WERE so afraid. But then came the voice -- clear, piercing sweet, beautiful beyond description. "Unto you is born this day, in the city of David a Savior, which Christ the Lord."

And suddenly, there was with the angel, a multitude of the heavenly host praising God, and saying, "Glory to God in the Highest, and on Earth peace, good will toward men."

Like an infinite and eternal exaltation of larks they sang; sang until my heart must surely shatter and the tears ran unchecked down my cheeks and dropped unnoticed upon my clasped and trembling hands.

To you, who have read my story, and considered it a tale for fools and children, I can say only this -- from this eternity to the next, never ending to never ending -- I SAW WHAT I SAW. And I tell you the truth, as pure and clean and bright as the noonday sun. Worlds without end, it cannot, will not change.

For the humble, it is easy to believe, as we believed what we heard that night. And because we believed, we went and did see the child, lying in a manger. We saw, that night, a sight multitudes of people -- past, present and future -- kings, and commoners, princes and potentates would give their lives to see, the infant son of the Lord God Almighty.

Poor? Ours was a divine gift, a sacred treasure, to be kept deep within the heart, wondered at, pondered upon, cherished. And then to be told, in great reverence and in the quiet of night, to children, and they to theirs, generation to generation. Forever.

MUSICAL SELECTION sung by audience: " While Shepherds Watched Their Flocks"

WIFE OF THE KEEPER OF AN INN:

For generations, my husband's family have been keepers of an inn here in Bethlehem. And now, together, we do the same. Ours is a small inn, humble and unpretentious, nevertheless as clean as we can make it. We take pride in our simple but carefully prepared meals, our scrubbed floors, and well-aired bedding. Sometimes there are flowers growing from our window pots and we take pleasure in our small business.

It is not a large town, this Bethlehem of Judea, and most of those calling it home are simple farmers and shepherds. And yet, still and all, it is a beloved and revered village, endeared to Jewish hearts as the birthplace of David and that of the prospective Messiah.

Each morning, for many years, I have swept clean the pack earth in front of our door, and have looked into the faces of those passing through our small village. I have seen many things there -- anger, despair, pride, acceptance, peace, selfishness, exhaustion. The faces I forgot, but the things I saw there stay with me, reminding me of how fortunate I am to be at peace -- content with my life and those things the Lord has seen fit to bestow upon me.

And then came the time of the tax rolls, the proclamation of Caesar Augustus that here shall be a taxing and registration of the house of David. It was the second of three such registrations to be held at intervals of about twenty years. Sleepy Bethlehem was not itself. Its quiet streets were choked with dust and filled with the voice of tired, hurrying people. The outer inn was filled to the rafters, and to escape for a moment, the noise, the heat and the hurry, I fled to my dooryard.

As was my custom, I stood for a moment, gazing down the street, studying the faces. There was a donkey, and leading it, a strong young man, obviously fatigued and yet different somehow. There was pride in the face -- and dignity. He was a poor man, and yet I have seen, passing my door, great men of the world, with much less a look of nobility. This was a man of the house of David, a house of kings, and here was one of the same royal lineage. Yet he was more. And then I saw the face of the young woman riding, exhausted and great with child on the back of the donkey. If the man leading the animal had about him the air of royalty, this surely was a queen. Her face was drawn with fatigue and her simple robes powdered with the fine light dust that lies thick along the roads of Judea. And yet no trace of discontent, no shadow of complaint, no faint inclination to murmur could I see.

Slowly they came closer and stopped before me. Quietly the young man asked for lodging and my heart fell. Perhaps it was because I knew so well how it is to be tired and heavy with child, but perhaps I sensed something from the young couple that drew from me a desire to comfort and serve. I don't know, but I did know that within that hot, crowded, noisy and odorous inn there was no room, no single corner fit for the birth of a child -any child - but especially this child.

My mind raced. My own room? Impossible. It was crowded already with my own children and members of my family who had come to pay the same tax. The sheds behind? No again, they were small and dark, overrun with mice, dirty with disuse. But there was a stable -- the shelter we kept for our animals in the hills behind the inn. There would be clean sweet straw, open areas to admit freshness and light, but most of all, peace and privacy.

And so it was to a humble stable I led them -- these two extraordinary young people. And having done for them what I could, I left them to rest and returned to the inn.

Evening came, following it, the night -- that night. The night foretold for centuries, hoped for, prayed for, whispered of around campfires and in synagogues, during wars, under oppression, on death beds. For on that night, made glorious by a burning and brilliant star and the voices of the hosts of heaven itself, was born in my stable, the Son of God, the Redeemer of all mankind, the Savior of the world -- Jesus the Christ.

I saw him, lying still and small, in a common manager. I stood by while humble shepherds filled with the power and perception of the Holy Spirit bore witness that it was, indeed, the Messiah. I stood in the shadows, gazed at the radiance of his person, the indescribable look of joy and peace and love that transfigured the face of his mother and that of Joseph, the man chosen to care for him. I was, and I bear solemn testimony -- irrefutable, unshakable, even till death, that I saw born to Mary the virgin, the son of the highest, the only begotten of the Eternal Father -- Jesus, the Christ.

The rise and fall of dynasties, the birth and dissolution of nations, all the cycles of history as to war and peace, as to prosperity or famine, the awful happenings of earthquakes and storms, the triumphs of invention and discovery, the epochs of all the occurrences that make history are chronicled throughout the world by reference to the year before or after that night -- the birth of Jesus Christ.

A man never lived of whom more has been said and sung, none to whom is devoted a greater proportion of the world's literature. He is extolled by Christian, Muslim and Jew, by skeptic and infidel, by the world's greatest poets, philosophers, statesmen, scientists and historians. Even the profane sinner in the foul sacrilege of his oath acclaims the divine supremacy of Him whose name he desecrates.

I saw born that night, in the city of David, the one who was, and is, and always will be for eternity and ever , the son of the Living God, the Redeemer and Savior of the human race, the Eternal Judge of the souls of men, the chosen and appointed of the Eternal -- in short, the Christ. It is my solemn witness.

MUSICAL SELECTION: "What Child is This?"

THE MOTHER OF THE CHILD JESUS:

Yes, I am Mary, and yes, Jesus is my son. Indeed, blessed am I among women.

My story is an old one, told and retold from before time began and once again here today by those women whom I love so well. It is a story of spirit, rather than history, and its simple and inspiring truth must and will be manifest by the Holy Spirit rather than by the words of men.

I am a woman, much as the women among you, gifted with the divine opportunity of forming a partnership with God in providing a mortal temple for the spirits of his children. It is a sacred thing, motherhood, whether it concerns the Christ or anyone of the infinitely precious spirits sent to many of you. Sacred, holy and beautiful beyond description. For in the pure and undefiled love a mother for a child, mankind comes closer to approaching the love of God, than at any other time.

Notes from Kathy Fowkes:

When this was done for the Relief Society Christmas program, each woman wore a plain piece of cloth (about 4 or 5 feet long) over her head and across her shoulders. The women were seated together on the front row. One by one they took a seat facing the audience and read their parts. The simple head coverings made them equal and covered the modern day dress they were wearing for Christmas.

Since this about women, it would also be appropriate for a Relief Society Mother's Day program, as well as for a Christmas program. The music selections were played on the piano, but might have been vocal performances or both.

So far no one has been able to determine who wrote this. Thanks to the unknown author who created this and may the person someday know how it has been enjoyed by many sisters.

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